A MUM-of-two was left distraught after discovering her fiancé had hooked up with her mate and sent random women naked snaps when she was pregnant.
Danni Sier, 28, from Harwich, Essex, says she can "never forgive" Alan Bowes, 29, for what he did and has thrown her engagement ring "in the bin".
Full-time mum Danni told Fabulous Digital: "Alan was charming and handsome, and I fell for him straight away.
“I thought he was a decent guy, but I was wrong. He turned out to be a lying cheat.”
The couple met in May 2015, via a dating app. Their relationship moved quickly and a year later Alan proposed.
Danni said: “Life was perfect and I was excited to share the news. I met up with my good friend of 10 years and showed off my engagement ring. She was really happy for me.”
By November 2016 the pair had booked their dream wedding in Cyprus for October 2017. Then, two weeks later, Danni discovered she was pregnant.
She said: “We were both over the moon and with the baby due in September we pushed the wedding back to the following year, 2018.”
But in February 2017, Alan lost his job and cracks began to show in the couple’s relationship.
I thought he was a decent guy, but I was wrong. He turned out to be a lying cheat
She continued: “He was being really distant. He went from being affectionate and showering me with compliments, to being vacant and barely touching me.
“By August, he told me he didn’t know if he was still in love with me.
“I was stunned. At eight months pregnant I was desperate to fix things for the baby.”
Alan agreed to work on their relationship, and in September 2017, Danni gave birth to their son, now 20 months.
Back at home, although Alan was a good dad to his son, he continued to be distant with Danni.
And whenever she tried to talk to him, he shut her down. Fed up, Danni confronted him.
She said: “I told him he’d been acting strangely for months and asked him what was wrong.
“Out of nowhere he told me he’d been speaking to women on webcams and Snapchat.
“I was devastated and my son and I went to stay with my dad.”
There, Danni’s dad said something that shocked her.
She added: “Dad told me he’d always suspected that something was going on with Alan and my friend.
“I was shocked and sure he was wrong, but to stop feeling paranoid, I called her to find out the truth.
“To my surprise, she crumbled and confessed they’d kissed a few times while I was 16 weeks pregnant. I was heartbroken.”
Danni dumped Alan and he moved back in with his parents. Over the next few months Alan begged for Danni’s forgiveness.
Eventually, in February 2018, she agreed to give him a second chance for the sake of their son.
She said: “Just five weeks after we got back together, I discovered he was still speaking to women online and when I confronted him, he admitted sending random women nudes while I was pregnant.
Out of nowhere he told me he’d been speaking to women on webcams and Snapchat
“It was so hurtful. This time it was over for good. I cancelled the wedding and I used the money for a holiday to Lanzarote.
“The engagement ring went straight in the bin. I’ll never forgive him for what he did.
“Cheating on me was bad enough, but to cheat with my friend, while I was pregnant- well, that’s betrayal at its absolute worst.”
Alan Bowes told Fabulous Digital: “I have made many mistakes but I truly ain’t (sic) a bad person and I feel remorse every day.
“But I have changed and I am becoming a better person. If she really wants to write this story, maybe it will help a lot of people – maybe they will have a chance to not lose the person they truly love.”
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