I want to find a new man to have sex with as my husband only lasts a minute in bed

I feel like looking for a new man but we’ve been married for 12 years. We are both 36 but I see this as far from old and there should be more physical pleasure going on.

He is a good man, kind and considerate but at this rate it won’t even be a once-a-month let-down. There’ll be nothing.

DEIDRE SAYS: Does he need a medical check-up? If you’re sure it’s not a health issue, he probably he feels awful he climaxes so quickly and that you get so disappointed.

And the less frequently you have sex, the more likely he is to suffer from premature ejaculation.

Tell him you love him and see this as a shared problem. Simply having sex again as soon as you can after that first time can make a massive difference.

My e-leaflet on How Men Can Last Longer explains self-help sex therapy.


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