WHEN Cristiano Ronaldo and his girlfriend Georgina Rodriguez revealed they kept their relationship spicy by her wearing sexy underwear in bed EVERY night, women across the UK rolled their eyes in unison.
According to research, 50% of us love nothing more than pulling on a pair of cosy pyjamas but we meet the three women who, like Georgina, believe getting dolled up before bed is as essential as brushing their teeth…
'I dress up to tease and excite my man – women who don’t are idle’
Chloe Clark is a 34-year-old admin assistant from Peterborough. She lives with her partner Mike and three kids. She says:
"Of course Ronaldo’s girlfriend wears nice underwear in bed.
"He is fit and anyone who feels as though they are punching above their weight is always going to make an effort in the bedroom.
"My sex life is massively important in our relationship. I always say that you can get a hug, friendship, a kiss, holding hands from other loved ones such as family and friends in your life.
"But, when it comes to sex, it is just you and your partner. It is the only thing in life that is exclusively reserved for the two of us.
"Me and my partner, Mike, have been together for 5 years and my body confidence has changed over the years, having had three kids, but I won't let that get in the way of a good sex life.
"In the past I've worn suspenders but nowadays I’ll wear a two-piece and sometimes I’ll dress up for him too.
"Mike knows if I am wearing something sexy then the green light is flashing. It's all engines go. On the rare occasion I am in bed in Bridget Jones knickers then he knows I am a no-go zone.
"We both go to bed at the same time. We do it because it’s about that closeness between us at the end of the day. The sexually intimacy that comes with our alone time in bed is important when I've spent the day working, shopping and being occupied with the kids.
"One time I wore a white lace all in one outfit – it was the works! Basque, suspenders, white stockings too.
"I went upstairs first and changed into it and as soon as he saw me he swore and had a big smile on his face. It had the desired effect!
"I like to tease and excite Mike and I reckon most women should do the same for their fellas too – if they don’t they’re just idle.
One time I wore a white lace all in one outfit – it was the works! Basque, suspenders, white stockings too.
"No relationship will go the distance if your sex life is neglected.
"In a long-term committed relationship, it’s important not to get complacent. It’s easy to get comfortable and stop trying so hard to impress your partner.
"Whilst you may not need to, I think it’s a great way to show them that you still care about what they think and that you still want them to fancy you."
'I once wrapped myself up in nothing but a bow – my man loved it'
Author and body positivity coach Bridget Zyka, 40, is married to Aldo, 36, a builder. They live in North London. She says:
"Jumping between the sheets in a tired old T-shirt isn’t going to do your relationship any good.
"Complacency kills off sex and that spells doom for the marriage too. I like to wear nice underwear for Aldo.
"Wearing gorgeous red lippy makes me feel good – it’s the same when it comes to slipping into something sexy for him when we go to bed.
"Period knickers don’t make you feel sexy in bed but nice underwear does, whatever your size.
"Slipping into something soft and silky sets the mood for us – my favourite outfit is probably silk camisole tops with undies. A nice set of underwear or a kinky outfit makes me feel my best and adds to the moment.
Period knickers don’t make you feel sexy in bed but nice underwear does whatever your size.
"Anything that makes you feel amazing and oozing confidence I'm all for. It's pleasure at the end of the day for both of you – what's there to lose?
"Wearing nice underwear or a sexy negligee makes me feel empowered and helps set the mood for the nocturnal hours when it's just the two of us. I don't understand why more women don't do this.
"Sex is important in a relationship and going to bed together is the bedrock of any relationship.
"I’ll happily spend £20-£30 on pretty bottom-skimming negligees or silk short and tops combos.
"It’s sexy to have such a soft fine fabric next to your body – it turns me on!
"Aldo doesn't question why I do this! He likes the look and feel of it although it is usually removed from my body within seconds!
Wearing nice underwear or a sexy negligee makes me feel empowered and helps set the mood for the nocturnal hours when it's just the two of us
"He appreciates my effort and always tells me I look good. Once, for a special treat, I wrapped myself up one evening, literally!
"It was a ribbon/present combo that you step into and wrap yourself up like a bow.
"I presented myself to him that night. He was a bit shocked at first but let’s just say he enjoyed it!
"I do share with my girlfriends what I do. My advice to them is always to make an effort and do the same.
"Looking nice in bed as well as out of it is the secret to a happy relationship. It’s good for our sex life."
‘Your man will stray if you don't make an effort in the bedroom’
Laura Myers, 39, is a nail technician from Barking, Essex. She is mum to Lewis, 19, Samuel, 11. She lives with partner Ags, 37, who works in the construction industry and their daughter Sophia, two-and-a-half.
She says: "Our sex life is more important to my other half than it is for me. That said I make it a priority.
"Women who don’t make and effort and give out for their partner can’t moan if they stray.
"That’s why I lay on all the works when we go to bed. Me and my other half don’t live together full-time. He works away and it keeps things exciting between us.
"When we see each other again we are both very sexual.
I know he gets turned on by me wearing a G- string. I will even match up my underwear for him on my better days!
"While he doesn’t need me in underwear I know he gets turned on by me wearing a G- string. I will even match up my underwear for him on my better days!
"I feel sexiest in a pair of silky French knickers with a matching camisole. He loves anything like that. It feels soft and girlie.
"Other times I will surprise him with a matching suspenders set – we once got so carried away that one of my suspenders broke!
"I have put on a bit of weight since we've been together but that’s no reason to let things slide.
"There’s no excuse for buying nice stuff to wear in bed and turn your man on.
"Primark sell some gorgeous stuff too. There are loads of cheap and cheerful G-strings on the High Street.
"Sex is really important to us and we do it most days when we’re together.
"Pretty underwear gets him in the mood – why wouldn't any woman do it?"
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