DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER just three months of marriage I can’t help looking for something to ruin our amazing life.
We love one another and he would be so hurt.
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He’s 47 while I’m 35 and was in a violent marriage for ten years with a cheat.
I met my husband two years ago and trust him totally, yet I worry it will go wrong.
I am his third wife.
I see messages from women on his Facebook and it eats me up with paranoia.
He promised to delete them but hasn’t yet.
They aren’t sexual, just flirty.
Some are to women when we first met that he didn’t tell me about.
DEIDRE SAYS: Try to think back to when you and your husband first really committed to one another.
Draw a line there and be firm with yourself that any friendships and flirtations he had before then are nothing to do with you.
He didn’t really know you and love you back then.
Don’t go trawling through ancient history because your happiness lies in the present and future.
Whenever you feel a vulnerable moment coming on, ask him for a calming and reassuring hug.
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