My husband has been secretly seeing his ex — should I leave him?

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE discovered that my husband has been living a double life.

He told me he was staying at his brother’s house when he had his kids every weekend but he was really with his ex.


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I’m 41 and my husband is 43. I even gave birth to our one-year-old son alone in hospital while he was with his other family.

It had gone on for three years before I found out. I was furious but he accuses me of checking up on him.

He hasn’t worked for years. I pay for everything including a car, and I bought him loads of designer clothes and shoes.

I’m falling out of love with him and realise nothing is going to change. He blames everyone else. Is my marriage worth fighting for?

DEIDRE SAYS: I’m one of life’s optimists but I can’t see any signs that your husband is going to turn over a new leaf.

Don’t let the jibes of a man who has deceived you for years make you feel that any of his lies are your responsibility.

What you need is support so that you can build a happy life independent of him. Contact Gingerbread who support single parents (gingerbread.org.uk, 0808 802 0925).

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