The girl I've fallen for kissed my mate but insists nothing more happened

DEAR DEIDRE:  THE girl I’ve fallen for admits she kissed a mate of mine a while back.

She says nothing more happened – but did it?

I am 23, this girl is 21. We are part of the same group of friends but got together a month ago.

We talked about our pasts, and she said that two years ago she snogged my friend after a night of drinking.

Can I believe her when she says nothing else happened?

Should I carry on talking to her or is it not worth it?

I’ve been hurt before and don’t want it to happen again.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Whatever she and your mate did before, you two weren’t together – so there is no suggestion she was cheating on you then or that she is likely to now.

If your mate tries to stir up trouble, tell him the past is best left to lie.

Promising relationships aren’t so easy to find, so try to focus on the present and future, then see how things go.

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