A MUM has admitted that she prioritises being a wife over being a mum – and says women that don’t are heading for a divorce.
Sofia and her husband Jay have been married for 27 years and often share tips on maintaining marital bliss on their TikTok account.
But the couple caused a stir recently when they both encouraged their followers to put their husband before their kids.
“Your marriage should be your number one priority, not your kids,” Jay says in the video.
Agreeing, Sofia chimed in: “Moms I know why you had that reaction is because every mom has this instinct to take care of their baby right?
“We love our kids, we have a son and a daughter we were not saying not to prioritise your children.
“I’m going to double down on this though moms, our society tells you that husbands are disposable and by your comments I know you think that too and I’m going to challenge you on that.”
Agreeing that he should be a priority, Jay added: “You’re wrong if you think your kids come before your marriage because when you have a strong foundation your chances of having happy, healthy, well adjusted kids goes up exponentially.”
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The video has since gone viral amassing almost 800,000 views and hundreds of comments from people, many of which completely disagreed with the couple.
One wrote: “I can replace a husband, I CANNOT replace my kids, they will always come first.”
Another agreed, adding: “I love my husband more than words can say, but no way in h€ll is he or our relationship more important than our child.”
“My husband comes AFTER our children and he knows it. He puts them first also,” added a third.
However, there were several women who agreed with Sofia.
One wrote: “When the kids grow up and move out, the marriage is all that is left.”
A second commented, “We need to honor our husbands and that doesn’t mean we’re not going to take care of our children.”
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