Girls ghost me when they find out I use a mobility scooter

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M good-looking and single – but girls ghost me when they learn I use a mobility scooter.

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Due to severe back problems, I’m unable to walk more than a few steps unassisted. I’m 28.

I feel lucky to still have my legs. But apparently women don’t see it that way – they only see my disability.

On dating apps, girls seem keen to meet until I say I’ll be turning up in a scooter. Then they melt away.

I’m sure it’s because they think it would be embarrassing to be seen out with me.

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My self-esteem has really taken a hit. I’m a nice guy, and I wouldn’t say I was ugly – just disabled.

How do I meet women who will give me a proper chance?

DEIDRE SAYS: Dating apps can be a good way to meet someone, but there is a tendency to focus on looks.

Some people will write you off before they even know you – but please remember, this is their loss.

Meetup.com is great for finding new interests and groups in your area. It’s also a good way to meet like-minded people and build up genuine relationships.

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