I want my work colleagues to see my thong poking out of my suit trousers

DEAR DEIDRE: I SPEND a fortune on my work clothes but not the suits and shirts. It’s women’s underwear that I love.

I’m a single man of 45. I work in an insurance office.

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I’ve always loved lingerie and recently I spent £60 on a whole range of knickers, including thongs and frilly Brazilian pants.

I love the feel of them against my skin. I sometimes wear tights or even stockings, all under my suit trousers.

I’m a straight man. I have no interest in men but I’ve never had a relationship with a woman.

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I long for somebody to catch me and sometimes hope a little lace might show over my trousers and someone will see my underwear.

Am I weird or is this normal behaviour?

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DEIDRE SAYS: You’re certainly not the only man in the world who enjoys wearing women’s underwear.

And it isn’t uncommon for cross-dressing men to want to be “discovered”.

What is important to remember is that this is part of you. You’re not doing anyone any harm.

You can find support via The Beaumont Society, (beaumontsociety.org.uk, 01582 412 220) which helps cross-dressers, transsexuals and their families.

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