I'm a psychologist – here are six signs someone has a crush on you

Tough love! Psychologist reveals the six ways YOU can spot if someone really has a crush on you (and why RUDENESS is a great sign)

  • Francesca Tighinean is originally from Romania but is now based in the US 
  • The psychologist and coach has amassed more than 1.3m followers on TikTok
  • Most recently, she revealed the six signs that someone has a crush on you 

A psychologist has revealed the signs someone may have a crush on you – from stretching their body while they are around you to speaking loudly. 

Francesca Tighinean, who is originally from Romania but is now based in the US, studied psychology at City University in London.

She has since earned viral fame by sharing a slew of psychology tips with her 1.3 million followers on TikTok.

In her most recent clip, which had amassed more than 777,000 views, she gave viewers six tips to help them identify if someone likes them. 

Francesca Tighinean has revealed the signs someone may have a crush on you – from stretching their body while they are around you to speaking loudly

In her most recent clip, which has amassed more than 777,000 views, she gave viewers six tips to help them identify if someone likes them (stock image)


Her first tip to know if someone likes you is if they stretch out around you. She also said that speaking loudly around you is a sign they like you

‘Signs someone has a crush on you, according to psychology,’ she captioned her video. 

The key to love? If someone does these things they may have a crush on you 

  • Stretch their body when you’re around 
  • Speak loudly if you are nearby
  • Rude to you for no reason
  • Overshare unnecessary details
  • Play with their hair or straighten out their back
  • Aren’t themselves around you 

For her first tip, Francesca revealed why someone stretching near you may be their way of telling you they like you.

‘They start to stretch out when they’re in your proximity, especially guys do this,’ she explained.

‘When they’re close to you, they’ll try to take up more space.’ 

Next up, the psychologist said to pay attention to the level of a person’s voice – more specifically if they were loud. 

She revealed that someone being loud around you was a sign they had a crush on you.

Francesca explained it was because ‘they [were] trying to get your attention.’ 

‘Number three, they are rude to you for no reason,’ she revealed.

Francesca noted that this was a ‘childish’ and ‘immature’ form of showing they liked you. 

But someone may do it to you, especially if you don’t like them because they just want to get any kind of emotional reaction from you. 

And if you are having a conversation with someone and they can’t stop blabbering then they most likely have feelings for you, the psychologist explained. 

Francesca noted that if they were rude to you then it was a ‘childish’ and ‘immature’ form of showing they liked you


Oversharing unnecessary details and changing their body position to fix their hair are also signs of that someone may have a crush on you

Lastly, you should watch out for someone who isn’t themselves when you are around

She said if they started ‘oversharing unnecessary details’ it was most likely because they were nervous around you. 

‘Number five, they change their body position when you enter a room. What we feel inside, our emotions, influence our body language. So, if you invoke a certain feeling in someone, they will unconsciously change their body position,’ she explained. 

The psychologist said you should pay extra attention to ‘subtle signs’ like ‘fixing their hair, playing with their necklace, or just straightening their back.’

The last tip to watch out for to know if someone likes you is if they seem like they aren’t themselves when you are around.

‘If you notice that this person acts differently to you compared to other people, it’s because they are nervous, and they’re uncomfortable in your presence,’ she said.

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