DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my husband but our sex life is so dull.

I would love to know how we can become better at it.

We have been happily married for eight years and have two beautiful daughters. We are both 31.

My husband has only had one previous partner. I had several and they all knew how to please me.

My husband just doesn’t do it for me and I don’t know how to show him what I like.

I am not really sure myself. Apart from in the bedroom, everything is perfect.

My husband says he's bisexual – how can I ever trust him again?

HEART ATTACK

My girlfriend can't stop criticising me but I still love her

GONE TO POT

CAREER TEARS

DEIDRE SAYS: You will have some idea what works for you if you can remember what those earlier partners used to do.

My e-leaflet Thrilling A Woman In Bed will help you find the right words to explain what you want to try.

Encourage him to slow down and take his time.

Focus on what feels good and be ready to say: “More of that, please!”