Grieving widow, 60, ‘is driven to brink of suicide’ by ‘evil’ neighbour who put raw octopus through her letterbox, smeared cocoa powder on her door and pelted house with eggs in row over shrine to her late husband

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A grieving widow was ‘left suicidal’ after a nightmare neighbour shoved raw octopus through her letter box and pelted eggs at her home during a bitter row over a shrine to her late husband. 

Church volunteer Margaret Ilkovics, 60, was subjected to callous smears and vandalism, which included smearing cocoa powder on her door, by former social worker Anthony Kenyon.

The 52-year-old man proclaimed that Mrs Ilkovics memorial to her husband Richard, which included ornaments, a memory box and shrubs placed under a pussy willow tree in a communal garden, was a ‘health and safety breach’. 

Kenyon was said to have uprooted the three foot high tree, killed of the grass and plans with weedkiller and even damage ornaments, such as commemorative dolls, at Regina Court in Salford, Greater Manchester. 

He was also accused of writing poison pen notes claiming Mrs Ilkovics’ husband who died of cancer aged just 54 was ‘bogus’ and she had only married him for his money.

Margaret Ilkovics, 57, placed shrubs, various ornaments and a memory box under a pussy willow tree as a daily reminder of her late spouse Richard who died of cancer aged just 54. The shrine was located in a communal garden 

 Anthony Kenyon shoved raw octopus through his neighbours letter box and pelted eggs at her home during a bitter row over a shrine to her late husband

The widow filled her garden in Salford with plants as a shrine (pictured under the shrub) to her late husband Richard, who died of cancer aged 54

What was left of the garden at Regina Court in Salford following the neighbourhood dispute 

In 2020, Mrs Ilkovics, a retired clerk won a two year restraining order against Kenyon but he continued his campaign of harassment.

He put raw octopus through her letter box, smeared cocoa powder on her door, and threw eggs at her property. He was arrested after she installed a security camera to capture him targeting her property.

In a statement the victim described Kenyon’s behaviour as ‘mental torture’ and said he was preventing her from properly grieving her husband who passed away in 2018.   

She also said she had ‘seriously’ considered suicide and added: ‘Please help make this stop. I do not deserve this. I just want to be left alone to heal and enjoy the years that I have left.’

At Manchester Crown Court Kenyon faced up to four years jail under sentencing guidelines after he admitted breaching a restraining order but was sentenced to 13 months in prison, suspended for 18 months after it emerged he has since been evicted.

He was also issued with a new four year restraining order preventing him from contacting Mrs Ilkovics and was ordered to complete 25 rehabilitation activity days.

The victim had married her husband in June 2018 as he lay terminally ill in hospital and he died the following month. 

In 2020, Mrs Ilkovics, a retired clerk won a two year restraining order against Kenyon but he continued his campaign of harassment

The victim had married her husband Richard in June 2018 as he lay terminally ill in hospital and he died the following month

Kenyon faced up to four years jail under sentencing guidelines after he admitted breaching a restraining order but was sentenced to 13 months in prison, suspended for 18 months after it emerged he has since been evicted

But she fell out with Kenyon when she set up the shrine outside their respective homes in the apartment complex which houses the elderly or those with disabilities.

In one incident Kenyon dumped some of the ornaments in a shoebox on Mrs Ilkovic’s wheelie bin whilst she was away on holiday.

There was a horrific note attached which read: ‘Please find enclosed the funeral ornaments you placed without permission. 

‘Said items I’m reliably informed are supposed to be placed indoors either side of an urn for example.

‘Whilst one appreciates certain individuals placing such items and all manner of other rubbish on graves, It is not acceptable in a domestic garden. 

‘You have caused not only an affront to my religious beliefs but blocked access to the fire escape and wasted police time.’

The victim also said Kenyon would also ‘rant and rave’ at her from behind a window at his flat and unnecessarily summon ambulances to her home wrongly claiming she had a severe mental illness and needed ‘taking away.’ 

The home of Mrs Ilkovics (red door) and Kenyon (right) in Regina Court, Salford. The shrine previously lay between the two properties 

Mrs Ilkovics met her husband Richard when she moved next door. He died in 2018 from cancer

One note he put in his window referred to Mrs Ilkovic’s home saying: ‘Goods available strictly COD (cash on delivery) convicted shoplifter.’

In January 2022 Mrs Ilkovics bought a Ring doorbell for £340 to catch Kenyon and footage over an eight-day period showed him throwing sticks, burnt carrots and rubbish outside her front door and throwing a light-bulb and aerosol cans at her wall. 

He also spilled a thick liquid solution from a container outside the front door.

Miss Jane Dagnall, prosecuting: ‘It captured a sustained campaign of harassment. Mrs Ilkovics has said she has felt targeted by Mr Kenyon. She has felt harassed, alarmed and distressed. 

‘She described the effect of his behaviour as mental torture and preventing her from properly grieving her husband who passed away in 2018. She has seriously considered suicide.’

In mitigation defence counsel Michael Lavery said: ‘While no doubt Mrs Ilkovichs felt severe distress one has to approach the case with a certain realistic attitude and look at what he actually did. 

‘He spilt liquid down the drain, on another occasion a light bulb was thrown at the wall, and sticks thrown on the path in a communal area.

‘I am not down playing what happened mentally, but what one has to consider whether this is harm of a serious nature, or if very serious distress was caused to the victim. Of course she feels it, she is the victim of it, but the court will be aware of more serious cases.’

‘Since his arrest there has been no repetition and he has moved away from the area.’

Sentencing Kenyon Judge Kate Cornell told him: ‘Low level these incidents may be, but they were repeated and targeted against her and calculated to continuously annoy and upset her, and they did.

‘Mrs Ilkovics has reported feeling anxious, depressed, even to the point of feeling suicidal. She has not felt able to grieve for her husband, and not felt able to go out and live her life freely. 

‘To other people it seems that you are at a low risk of reoffending, apart from Mrs Ilkovic. but this was a clear and persistent breach of a restraining order.

‘I cannot discount the severity of the impact she felt but I do accept these were essentially nuisance and low level offence – although very nasty in their impact. If you went to custody, you would have very little rehabilitation which would not assist anyone to my mind.

‘But you need to help to make sure that you do not resort to this type of petty and vindictive behaviour again.’

‘I still have not gotten over it [Rick’s passing]. I was with Rick for 19 years. We got married seven weeks before he died. We talked about it but we just never got around to it. We were like a married couple. 

‘He was a wonderful man, kind, loving, generous, sweet, caring, everything you could wish for. 19 years with Rick, best time in my life.’

The pair met when she moved in next door to him in Crumpsall: ‘I went from having a wonderful neighbour who ended up becoming my husband, to an evil one, he is evil.’

After the case Mrs Ilkovics said: ‘He’s just an evil man and I don’t know what I would have done if he had been allowed to stay next door.

‘I would lying awake night after night. worrying about going outside and finding the mess he made.

‘I was even worried this year about putting a Christmas tree outside or putting up holly wreath on the door. But at least he can’t come anywhere near there now. I was dancing when I found he had to move away. I have been messaging everyone saying: ‘He is gone now – gone at last’.’

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