BOOBS are something half the population has, but for some, they dominate their lives.

Sarah Williams, 40, a freelance writer and journalist specialising in tech, business, politics and lifestyle, has found this to be the case most of her life.

Originally from Los Angeles, Sarah now lives in Manchester. Here she shares her experiences as a woman with 32GG breasts...

"New Year’s Eve, 2018. I was on the roof terrace of a penthouse apartment in Manchester, chatting and smiling over cocktails with friends.

"My host guided me over to a group of good-looking people and began to introduce me.

"Suddenly, one of them looked at me and screeched, “Oh my god, look at them t*its!” and pointed at my chest.

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“Look at those puppies, they’re enormous!” She said to Sarah.

"She reached over, pushed my coat aside and began jiggling my breasts. 

"Another girl ogled my cleavage in delight and said to her mate, “Hold my drink, I’m gonna motorboat her!”

"I barely had time to fling a hand over my poor chest before this girl – a stranger – had her face buried in my breasts, which just meant not only was my chest covered in her spittle, so was my hand. What fun!

"I've had at least DD boobs since I was 14. And ever since then, until now, at 40 and 32GG or H bra size, I’ve had this same rather wet invasion of personal space occur dozens and dozens of times.

"I've had strangers, loved ones, partners and friends mention my boobs in a negative way.

"I’ve been referred to as ‘massive jugs lady’ and ‘her with the big ‘uns’ in my places of work.

"I've had people grab them, jiggle them, stop in the street and comment on them.

"I've been told repeatedly that I should stop lying about them being ‘obviously fake’.

"I’ve dated dozens of men who made it a point to tell me to my face that they ‘really don’t like big boobs’. Cheers, pal!

As for when she is at work, Sarah's boobs can can get in the way of her professional life.

'My boobs have to come to work with me – but I wish I could leave them at home!'

Sarah admitted that: "At least four bosses have pulled me into their office to talk to me about how I look "so sexy".

"When I’ve pointed out that I always wear a cardigan or otherwise attempt to disguise my large mammaries, I’ve been advised to wear clothing that’s too big in order to be ‘office-appropriate’.

"The thing is, my boobs are so big that I have cleavage in 95% of all tops.

"And they’re so large when compared with my petite shoulders and waist, that in a jumper or t-shirt, they look almost cartoonishly huge.

"The truth is, I get harassed just as much for my big boobs when they’re fully covered.

"One colleague, when I was completely covered in office-appropriate attire from neck to knee, told me I looked like a "high-end prostitute" ("I’m really not that expensive, lads" was my response in a room full of male colleagues in order to save face).

"I fled to the bathroom in shame. More than a decade later, that incident still haunts me.

"Lest you think it’s just me, there’s a high-profile, long-standing ‘poll’ on LinkedIn – a website which is for work, not for breasts – about whether we should take women who show cleavage seriously or not.

"It’s 2021, not 1955, and we’re still talking about whether women’s bodies are OK to exist or not?

"Oh, don’t get me wrong: I’ve learned over the years how to handle it all with humour. I’ve learned to joke back and roll with the punches.

I get harassed just as much for my big boobs when they’re fully covered.

"But still, it’s important that I say this, and that you listen: Large boobs aren’t there for you to look at, comment on, ogle, touch or laugh at.

"They’re part of my body, just like my nose, ears or belly.

"Your opinion on them – which I know may surprise you – is totally irrelevant. I’ll still have big boobs whether you tell me you like them or not, or whether you think they’re fake or not. 

"Trust me, I don’t go out of my way to wear ‘low cut’ outfits – that’s just how the outfit fits my body.

"What it comes down to, really, is just body type: people perceive that I dress ‘provocatively’ because I have what’s considered a ‘sexually provocative’ figure.

"A dress that’s cut down to a woman’s navel is ‘high fashion’ on a thin woman: on my figure, it’s just considered ‘slutty’ or, maybe even worse, ‘trashy’. But, in the words of Jessica Rabbit, “I’m not bad, I’m just drawn that way”.

'It really is just perception'

"In 2019, a group of evolutionary biologists asked hundreds of women and men what they thought about women with big boobs.

"They found out that we were considered less intelligent, less faithful, more promiscuous and more sexually desirable.

"But – and it’s amazing that I have to say this – there is no correlation between large breast size and a lack of intelligence.

"Just look at Dolly Parton, one of the smartest blondes to ever live!

"The truth is, I’ve spent my entire life being ashamed of my figure, hiding it under huge clothing, my confidence knocked by each comment and hating my ‘stupid big boobs’ because of the inappropriate way people interact with them. 

"Now, I embrace my ‘comically huge boobs’. Maybe it’s because of Dolly. Maybe it’s because of old age (I care exponentially less what other people think of me with each year after 30).

Just look at Dolly Parton, one of the smartest blondes to ever live.

"Maybe it’s simply because I refuse to hide my figure or be ashamed because people are idiots.

"Sure, it’s still hard to find clothes that fit my petite shoulders/waist AND my big boobs.

"But I know that my ‘massive puppies’ don’t define me anymore than my curly hair, blue eyes or American accent.

"So, please listen to your friendly big-boobied lady and next time you see one of us in the wild, keep your opinions – and your hands, face and arms – to yourself."

Despite all the attention Sarah gets for her chest, her partner is not particularly fussed about boob size, describing himself as a ‘shape man’

They have two kittens, one called Tupac and another named Descarte.

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